The beginning....sort of.

I became a hospice nurse after I'd completed almost three decades working as an RN.  I had never worked in a home care situation before, I was the nurse you saw in the hospital or the nursing home.  I dutifully called for and obtained doctor's orders for my patients and carried them out with, most of the time, speed and I hope compassion.  I started as a nurse in the mid- eighties, a time of transition for nurses.  Most no longer sported the coveted, yearned for white cap, and it was only a matter of time before not only the cap, but the white uniform disappeared entirely.  With that came a host of other changes, from medicare telling doctors how long to hospitalize their patients to nurses practicing medicine on their own. 

I had always wanted to pursue advanced schooling in nursing, but going to nursing school with three children already made it difficult if not impossible for me to continue on to get my bachelor's or master's degree at first.  Naturally, I kept on having babies, two more, so that when I finally took a breath and looked around and at going back to school, I was *horrors!* already almost fifty!

Still, I needed to do it.  I had to at least get my BSN, and so I plodded through two and a half years of online schooling with the revered University of Michigan.  Not only did I get my degree but I became a Michigan Wolverine for life!  GO BLUE!

Of course, that wasn't enough.  Once you began at U of M, it seemed imperative that you had to go on to grad school.  The more I thought about it, the less I wanted to get an MSN or to become a Nurse Practitioner.  Why?  I'm not really certain.  I think that after living nursing for almost thirty years, some of us need something "different."  My something was going to become Bioethics.

I took a Bioethics class to get my BSN.  I felt like a fool in that class because:
1.  I had no idea what anyone was saying
2.  I had no idea what anyone was saying

My classmates and professor discussed Kant and deontology, the veil of ignorance and myriad other things that I had never in all my years heard of and let me tell you, at first I literally thought I had landed in France.  But during the course, all kinds of interesting things were brought up by the professor.  Was it all right to lie?  What if by telling the truth you hurt someone's feelings?  Should someone end their own life?  Why can't they?  Should a baby or an old man use the only ventilator available in a third world country?  What if the baby is severely retarded and the old man is a respected and well written author?  Oh, it just went on and on and my brain sucked it in like a hummingbird at a feeder.  These questions, the fact that there was no one answer to anything, I swear, my brain felt almost high thinking about so many answers, choices, possibilities. 

So there I went.  Off to get a graduate degree in Bioethics.  Naturally I felt like an idiot again in grad school.  Loyola University in Chicago and it's Bioethics department are a huge repository for some of the brightest minds in the field.  Sadly, mine is not one of them.  Still, I was adequate I suppose, and have continued on until I now have one class left and the M.A.  is mine.

But what does all this matter?  It doesn't really except to say that by the time I started grad school I started to seriously wonder why I was working as a nurse on the floor.  Not that there is anything wrong with that, but how was I going to use this Bioethics degree when my main imperative each day was to pass large quantities of medicines to my patients, to chart, and to admit, discharge, assess and report on them?  I needed something more so when the opportunity to become a hospice case manager presented itself.  I jumped. 

I was so glad I did.